Ask HN: A problem you have that hasn't been solved by tech

I had a quarrel with my girlfriend. It is a problem, I do not know what to do. And tech couldn't help me with it.

Could you be a little more specific? What kind of a problem you need?

My problem is the pervasiveness of oversight and surveillance. Facial recognition software, tracking software, general surveillance and the like. Tech is the problem here - the solution isn't going to come out without looking like a Luddite's response.

I need an uncensorable internet