How Does Submissive Sex Work in the Age of #MeToo?
nytimes.com
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> The last thing a woman wants to be worrying about while in the heat of the moment is whether her arousal is an expression of her own distinct eroticism or a symptom of patriarchal oppression.
That statement is literally the definition of overthinking something.
It may be an example, but it's not the literal definition.
Men and women aren't supposed to have sex anymore without legally binding contracts witnessed by 3rd parties. Otherwise, men have nothing but undefinable downside.