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Most people don't actually want their problems solved—they want their problems understood. Before jumping to solutions, offer presence. Sit with them in the mess. Sometimes the most helpful thing you can say is nothing at all, and simply be there while they feel what they feel.

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So, I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.

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The year just started and I already have my picture of the year 🐻 forever grateful

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