Reflections from 20 to 30: Lessons from a Decade of Growth

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My Journey in a Nutshell:

  • Worked through four internships.
  • Participated in 4+ hackathons.
  • Graduated from Purdue with a B.S. in Computer Science.
  • Lead a team of 3 to build and implement a Database backed file system using Material Paths.
  • Became a Senior Software Engineer.
  • Endured healthy stints at 3 startups.
  • Latest startup was acquired by Microsoft.
  • Earned my first dollar on the internet.
  • Launched a lot of projects.

False Beliefs I Once Held:

  • You should have everything figured out.
  • Success follows a linear path.
  • You'll stop making mistakes.
  • Money solves all problems.
  • Confidence comes from having all the answers.
  • "Fake it till you make it" is a reliable strategy.
  • Saying “No” is bad and can close doors.

Life Lessons I Learned Along the Way:

  • Big software rewrites are usually a waste of energy, time, and money.
  • Solving business problems should take priority over pursuing technical perfection.
  • Being nice costs nothing and often pays off in unexpected ways.
  • Helping others achieve their goals is as rewarding as fulfilling your own.
  • Rules are often created without foresight; following them blindly is a mistake.
  • Software isn't always the solution, but it can be a powerful tool.
  • Ideas are plentiful; the ones who execute them are rare.
  • Perfection is the enemy of progress.
  • IMHO quality beats quantity.
  • Learn to say “Yes” to opportunities that push you out of your comfort zone.
  • Traveling the world isn’t as scary as it seems — it’s incredibly fun.
  • Enjoy the Journey because the destination isn't always that interesting.
  • Take care of your teeth.
  • Spend time thinking about your career, not just what you need to accomplish today.
  • Life style changes are more important than diets when adjust ones body composition.
  • Best part(code) is no part(code).
  • Setting ambitious goals is a good idea.
  • Write
  • Keep a second brain. Currently, I use obsidian to store notes and day to day journey activies.
  • Physical work is a great type of therapy.
  • Craft and tell good stories.
  • A rising tide lifts all boats.
  • Slow is smooth and smooth is fast.
  • Confidence - Is self-trust in your skills, choices, and values. An inner knowing of your strengths and weaknesses while intentionally thinking positively about oneself.

Farewell to my twenties, and a warm welcome to my thirties!

  • Taylor Brazelton