For me to even think about trying LLMs, I really need one which:
Is not actively dishonest, so it contains no programming for flattery, confidence, automatic agreement or other pretences not explicitly requested by the user.
Does not use any datacentres forced on communities or which are otherwise doing harm to them, or whose electricity and/or water consumption are secret, or which use resources gained by underhanded means or simple theft.
Is not trained on material without the consent of the people who made that material.
Is not being offered on a "cheap now, expensive later" model.
"Be the change you wish to see in the world" and all that.