Navigating Personal Space in Today’s Virtual Environment

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Virtual personal space requires good boundaries — here’s how to set and respect them

Vy Luu

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I began my career at a mid-sized company where I sat in pod-like configurations with no cubicle walls. Our desks were a few feet apart from each other. While an open-plan office typically starves us of personal space, the only time I felt my personal space compromised there was when a colleague with less-than-stellar personal hygiene joined the team.

We can define personal space as the area individual humans actively maintain around themselves into which others cannot intrude without arousing discomfort.

— Hayduk, 1978

Many of us now work in virtual spaces with remote team members, so it’s even less likely for us to feel encroached upon physically in day-to-day situations. But what about personal space in that virtual realm?

In my experience, virtual space requires the same kind of boundary-setting and respect for the boundaries of others that physical spaces require. Learning the skills to set and respect these boundaries among remote teams—or teams that combine remote and on-site work—is an…