With this little snippet inside your .zshrc your Terminal will switch to another Theme when sshing (and it will switch back automagically after exiting).
# Change theme of Terminal.app
tabc() {
NAME="${1:-Default}"
osascript -e "tell application \"Terminal\" to set current settings of front window to settings set \"$NAME\""
}
# Change to Danger theme when executing ssh
ssh() {
tabc Danger
/usr/bin/ssh "$*"
tabc
}
