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Rise of the full nesters: what life is like with adult children

theguardian.com

5 points by kepler471 15 days ago · 4 comments

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thih9 15 days ago

While it is a change when compared to recent years, we’ve seen this in one version or another in the past or in other cultures.

> In many cultures, such as in those of Asians, Middle Easterners, Africans, (…) Southern Europeans (Orthodox/Catholic countries), extended families are the basic family unit.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extended_family

  • WarOnPrivacy 15 days ago

    > While it is a change when compared to recent years, we’ve seen this in one version or another in the past

    I noted many 4+ adult families before WWII (from doing genealogy). It was a time when affordable housing for large families was generally obtainable and work/shopping/etc was in walking distance or reachable via public transit.

    FF to today and affordable housing isn't available for families of any size. Most folks must shoulder a number of new major, ongoing expenses like individual transportation. Living is massively more complex due to reams of requirements attached to anything you can think of. Parenting time has increased from a few hours/week to 24/7 adulting and modern children fully their lives in a series of adult-curated, adult-populated boxes.

    So we're back to needing 4+ typical income earners to meet minimal bills but nearly everything that enabled the 4+ adult household has been eradicated.

WarOnPrivacy 15 days ago

I live with my 4 adult sons (was 5 but 1 moved) because we're in a 4 income economy.

  • bdangubic 14 days ago

    never heard term 4-income economy before, you may consider cutting expenses as well :)

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