Prove It All Night: With no fame or fortune, what keeps a band onstage? (1999)
chicagoreader.comI've played in bar bands (doing covers) for 12 years now. My current project is going on hiatus due to some members leaving and us having to find new ones. We played our last show very recently and were talking about how we have an actual fanbase that's grown through friends, spontaneous discovery, and social media primarily through my bandmates' doing. Before the show and between sets I'm always going out of my way to do something in service of the performance instead of talking to people in the crowd that are watching us.
It then occurred to me that a decent part of the reason that I perform live is a selfish one - on some level I'd rather demonstrate social utility by being a human jukebox than have to interact with people normally. Apparently I'd rather chug water and double-check the setlist after getting off stage than drink a beer and introduce myself to people. As ironic as it sounds there's a certain security to being on stage that insulates you from having to hang out with people while still scratching the itch to go out.
Maybe I'm psychologizing myself too much but it's a thought. Definitely something I'm going to work on regardless.
“ As ironic as it sounds there's a certain security to being on stage that insulates you from having to hang out with people while still scratching the itch to go out.”
It does not sound ironic to me, and it reminded me of “To know them” by Eric’s Trip. If you don’t know the song, I think you’d feel at least partially identified by the short lyrics, regardless of what you make of the music.
I celebrated my 25th year on stage almost three years ago. Mostly playing covers in bars.
There was a time when we were hoping to “make it” and we did release an album but it wasn’t very successful, of course. That band broke up a few years later but I kept going with different bands.
I can’t do it every week anymore, let alone every night. It’s very physically demanding, so once a month is plenty in my age.
But it’s still fun. A lot of fun. I can’t imagine ever stopping it until I can’t physically do it. It’s part of who I am. Long live rock’n roll \m/
I've done the same as bartender or wedding photographer. There really is something to being integral, but not the focus of attention.
It might be just me, but I just like to be surrounded by human energy. I don't need to talk to anyone, and actually that can make it worse. But to be onstage, playing live music, in the zone, surrounded by positive energy: Really there's nothing better in this world.
I don't think you're alone:
>One must put up barriers to keep oneself intact
>I can't pretend a stranger is a long awaited friend
-Neil Peart
I knew someone who played guitar in the band at their daughter's wedding, and at least part of it was getting out of having to socialize after dinner— and in particular to participate in a father-daughter dance.
> and in particular to participate in a father-daughter dance.
part of being a parent is puttying your kid first. if you don't like to dance but your daughter really wants/needs this as part of the ritual, then you put on your big boy pants and do it. if your daughter really is okay with it fine, but you're an asshat for not. you may not like ballet, but you show up to the recitals. you might not like sportsball, but you show up to the events. you might cringe at the beginner band's abilities on stage, but you show up. it's not for you. it's for the kid.
princess comes first.
Likewise, the prince
I had a gig last night. Small local band with a bit of a following that hasn't performed for a few months. Audience of 120 or so. Great fun. My occasional hobby is lighting live music so I have to take what bands I can. Fortunately I really enjoy working with these people.
After the show two of the band (40 and 37 y.o.) were talking about what next. They realise that, sadly, they're probably not going to make it big, but aren't sure that the occasional local gig with audience of 120, or supporting someone bigger but where the audience don't care, is enough. What should they do? give up? change mental focus and do something completely different (one thought about being a counsellor, the other about going into visual art). I'm older, so they were asking whether I'd had similar thoughts. Sure have. I long ago realised I could never make a living lighting live music unless I moved to the US, or possibly europe. For reasons, neither were practical, so I consciously decided that desgining hardware, writing software, and doing the occasional hobby lighting gig were enough. But for those two? No idea.
Not really sure where this is going, but the tone of the article really resonated with the discussion with those two last night, and my tiredness this morning.
I still think live music beats the pants off recordings. And show in smaller venues where you can really see and interact with the band are _way_ better than big shows where you just have loud television
Maybe it's just optimism talking but I foresee a cultural shift towards favoring live performance. When people spend so much time looking at screens and being alone at home, they long to be immersed in a live sensoral experience.
I really, really, hope so. Local live music seems to be dying where I live.
This is essentially the same story behind Dire Straight's "Sultans of Swing". A band playing for next to no one, but for the fun of it.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sultans_of_Swing
And Harry doesn't mind if he doesn't make the scene
He's got a daytime job, he's doing alright
He can play the honky-tonk like anything
Savin' it up for Friday night
With the Sultans
We're the Sultans of SwingMary Spencer has a great one-take video [1] walking through the song and lyrics, really beautifully done
*Spender
Auto-complete gets me again.
“People don’t want to come out and drink anymore. They’d rather sit at home and get drunk, or surf the Internet."
There's also the question of what kind of music people want to listen to. Rock music seems to wax and wane according to youth preferences and other pop culture and social trends. Bars and clubs that fail to adapt will usually fail.
In the late 90s dance/rap/electronic was rising while guitar-based rock seemed to be fading, or splitting into niches like nu metal. By the early 2010s rock really seemed to be in a deep trough ... at that time I saw some bands that had once been considered big rock acts in 90s like Deftones, Helmet and Kula Shaker playing much smaller venues and neighborhood clubs in Boston.
But 10 years later the pendulum seemed to swing back to rock. I saw Deftones once again on their 2022 tour, now playing a 4,000-seat arena.
Performing is fun.
Played in a thrash metal band during the Halcyon days doing covers of the likes of Anthrax and Metallica and trying our best to write original material. Performing is fun but only a small part of the experience. Our band was one of a 1/2 dozen metal/speed/punk bands in town so when not playing we would be at each other's gigs. Many of us had rented sheds for rehearsing (decked out in secondhand carpet) so could often drop in on each other. Very much a community and something overlooked.
I believe the SF metal scene and the NY scene at the time was very much the same.
Performing is fun. Making music with other people is transcendent!
One day I'll retire, and the day after that I will still write code even though I'm no longer being paid to do it. And I'll still play my guitar every day even though I have no interest in being famous. I'll do both of those things for as long as I am able because they bring me joy.
When I retire (hopefully in a couple of years) I’m planning to get rid of my computer and smart phone. I might keep a Chromebook or something for email. I’m so over it all.
Same. I still kind of look forward to work Sunday night.
It's also the case with my other hobbies. Aside from chores and responsibilities, most of my days consists of doing things for fun. Sometimes it aligns with something people will pay me to do.
In my 30s now.
Some people can make a living doing something they enjoy. "Success" is not fame, and vice versa (they are wholly orthogonal to each other), and I remember reading an interview with a member of Canadian group Saga, who in the US had like 1 top 40 hit in the early 80s and a few more minor ones in their home country, but ultimately they sell a few thousand records a year, and tour regularly in two "big" markets for them : Puerto Rico and Germany, and they seem to make roughly a middle class lifestyle doing so.
Beats being an accountant or urologist I suppose.
I suspect there's a similar vibe for cover band folks.
passion, of course! not everyone is chasing fame and fortune. most musicians I know play just because someone is listening, and often times that someone is only them!
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Really enjoyed that. Thanks for sharing.
Bands are composed of people who like to eat.
Its a shame visa laws make it hard for European bands to come to the US
the nookie?