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40 points by gregorymfoster 10 years ago · 58 comments

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gloves 10 years ago

It's funny - IMHO the Hoodie Uniform was developed because people didn't seem to care about fashion or the clothes they were wearing - the stereotypical devs. I can also see how this has come full circle now though, as I think to my own office and if anyone did come in a suit, they would stick out like a sore thumb.

On one level, it seems to be a shame - suits do show a kind of respect or reverence for the place of work. On another, I think suits have their place, but as work places aim to make their offices more people friendly (some would say to keep them in the office longer) people's attires will naturally mold to fit the environment. Perhaps the dying out of the suit is something of a reflection of modern work practices and should be just seen as another item of clothing someone chooses to wear, without the significance of it being 'smart' or 'formal'.

  • tjr 10 years ago

    When I began my career in software over a decade ago, dress shirts and pants was typical attire in my area. And that's what I wore. Occasionally someone would wear something a bit more casual, and occasionally I would too. Eventually I got to the point of wearing t-shirts and jeans frequently.

    As far as I am concerned, as far as the people I work with are concerned, as far as the company is concerned, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

    But yet, I was increasingly feeling ... slobbish. Like, "this is my career, this is what I do for a living, this is what I went to college for and continually read books to learn about... is this really how I want to dress?"

    So I started dressing up a bit here and there. Felt silly at times, but no-one said anything. Today I'm wearing a suit-style vest and a tie. Walking in the hallways I feel conspicuously out of place, but back at my desk, I feel better about myself. I feel like I'm taking what I do more seriously. Am I really taking it more seriously? Hard to say. I think perhaps.

    I don't care what you wear, and I hope the feeling is mutual. For myself, I'm kind of liking dressing up again. I don't feel that I'm conforming to any social demands or artificial constructs of what is proper; if anything, I am now going against them.

  • ergothus 10 years ago

    I'm not in a suit, but I'm in a dress shirt, vest, and trilby most every day. I stick out amongst the hoodies and sweatshirts around me, but I've never felt any reaction more malicious than confusion.

    Originally I picked this style to see if an orderly fashion imposed any kind of order upon my mind. (that was about 5 years ago, give or take a year) If so, I've not been able to discern it. I did, however, enjoy feeling a little different, and over the years as my middle-aged gut expands, I find the vest far more slimming than a Tshirt.

    This leaves me in the position of being a touch conformistly counter culture AND fat. Ah well.

  • linkregister 10 years ago

    It seems the way to wear dress clothes in the startup/tech environment is not to wear a simple two-piece suit. The folks in my office that get away with business attire wear more stylish items such as vests paired with unmatching slacks, coupled with a bold-print shirt. These kinds of looks look way more difficult to create than going to Brooks Brothers and asking for two suits.

    One legitimate reason why I would expect suit-wearers to be challenged is the fear of formal wear being required in the office.

    • dragonwriter 10 years ago

      > One legitimate reason why I would expect suit-wearers to be challenged is the fear of formal wear being required in the office.

      Business suits are business wear, not formal wear, which is a whole different category of clothing. Formal wear being required in the office would be a very odd thing, indeed.

      • zyxley 10 years ago

        > Formal wear being required in the office would be a very odd thing, indeed.

        "I know it's inconvenient sometimes, but you would not believe how cheap it was to rent out this extra space from the local symphony orchestra."

      • linkregister 10 years ago

        Oops. Thanks for that!

    • ThrustVectoring 10 years ago

      A formal requirement isn't what engineers are against. Dressing up and getting management attention because of it is a positional good, and they're enforcing a clique of "if nobody dresses up, nobody has to dress up or get ignored by management."

      • linkregister 10 years ago

        You're right, the business attire arms race is a real occurance. I'm being a bit dramatic, but I remember an office that stopped wearing sneakers for that reason.

  • gregorymfosterOP 10 years ago

    I agree completely with your thoughts on this. So many times things start out as a small rebellion against a norm, become cool, and then eventually become the standard.

  • dllthomas 10 years ago

    Count me amongst those who dresses up - dress shirt, slacks, jacket - almost every day. All overt reactions - where there have been any noticeable reactions - have been positive or neutral. I haven't noticed any negative reactions.

geebee 10 years ago

Funny how things circle and change, and sometimes, like political parties, end up flipping completely over a generation or two.

I suppose the original reason tech rebelled against the suit was because a suit represented conformity, an aggressively enforced dress code. Now, I suppose you could say that tech aggressively enforces a casual dress code, to the point where wearing a suit becomes an act non-conformity. I'm not joking here, the blog post is absolutely right, wearing a suit may seem mildly eccentric in a tech company. I see various people (including coworkers) wearing suits, and there is a counter-culture element to it. Suits are worn in different forms at the Dickens fair, by jazz and ska musicians (and people in the audience), and by other counter-cultural types (there was a guy who worked at Peet's coffee who always wore a suit and bowler hat).

SF is a place where this is particularly mixed up, since SF was probably the most east coast-ish of west coast cities where it came to wearing suits as part of the old dress code, and there are still a few more conservative industries here (banking, law) where suits are work as part of the older formal work culture than a new countercultural trend.

As for me? I like suits, I think they look great. I have never been required to wear a suit to work, so I never really associated them with conformity (I wore them mainly at weddings and a very few parties, so I have positive connotations). Like Greg Foster (author of the post), people would give me a strange look if I wore a suit to the office, but now that I think about it, there actually is one guy who wears a suit to the office every day...

  • Kalium 10 years ago

    Personal anecdote time! My uncle is general counsel at a fairly conservative finance firm in FiDi. So he hits both banking and law. He once told me that it's due to tech culture informality that he doesn't have to wear a tie every day anymore.

scrumper 10 years ago

Being a meekly frustrated warrior like many modern men, I sometimes imagine the process of putting a suit on in the morning as akin to donning chain mail and plate armor before a battle. Certainly it helps me get in the right frame of mind for the day, and when I get home the kids know I'll need to swap it for 'play clothes' before I'll roll around on the floor with them. I've worn a suit everywhere I've worked, even in casual companies on client-free days. It helps to enforce a separation between work and home which is, for me, a critical part of work/life balance.

Edited to add: you've already noticed the positive attention it's got you from senior management. This will only continue. And, until you can afford the real thing, I can wholeheartedly recommend having custom suits made by one of the visiting Hong Kong tailors which stop through every major city. They're inexpensive and the fit will be significantly better than off-the-peg. They won't last years but you'll get to pick every detail, and you can have a lot of fun with lining fabrics if you're not in consulting or law.

  • Kalium 10 years ago

    With the advent of Indochino, Proper Suit, Black Lapel, Dragon Inside, and more it's possible to get the Hong Kong tailor experience without having to find one of those scheduled to stop near you. Indochino and Proper Suit have storefronts in SF.

    • scrumper 10 years ago

      Ah true but part of the fun for OP will be having a smiling gentleman fondle his inside leg in an anonymous hotel suite. No app can reproduce that.

      • Kalium 10 years ago

        For that, there's always Craigslist!

        Slightly more seriously, the Indochino storefront has you covered on that front.

rm_-rf_slash 10 years ago

I think the problem is that most developers tend to be the nerdy types who didn't care much for fashion as a kid, or have the money in college to look good. Now they're in the workforce and they feel validated for dressing like shit: hoodies and pajamas are cute every once in a while but seriously, grow up and dress yourself like you're gonna get laid one of these days.

The way I see it, if you code, chances are you've got some coin. Find a look that matches your personality and stick to it. Plaid? Go for it. All black? Can't hurt. Vest and tie? Lookin' good. It doesn't have to be perfect, just wear what works. And for the love of God, even if you wear college clothes for the rest of your life, invest in a decent pair of shoes.

Ironically, the root of a lot of hacker culture is non-conformity. Jeans and a hoodie are a conformist statement if everyone else does it, whether you like it or not. And ask yourself why comfy clothing that can be slept in is promoted in work environments that prefer you to always be at the office.

My rule of thumb: dress the way you'd like to be seen by someone you want hiring or sleeping with you.

  • cballard 10 years ago

    > Vest and tie? Lookin' good.

    No, this really looks genuinely terrible. Never wear a tie without a jacket.

    http://putthison.com/post/29635680290/q-and-answer-when-can-...

    > The answer is pretty much “I work at a cell phone store.”

    (vest without jacket is just as bad, except it's "I'm a waiter")

    • peterwwillis 10 years ago

      There's plenty of ways to wear just a tie or a vest and make it look handsome. It just depends on whether it fits well and matches your outfit.

      Yes, there is a tendency for it to look like service personnel, so you have to either make it look classier or more casual.

      https://d29h7ql7qnxkqx.cloudfront.net/pix/blue_coffee2088/me... http://cdn12.lbstatic.nu/files/looks/large/2013/04/26/299690... http://image.tin247.com/vnmedia/101121161236-540-334.jpg http://i.ebayimg.com/00/s/MTI2N1g4NDM=/z/6scAAMXQ74JTWkrh/$_...

    • dragonwriter 10 years ago

      > (vest without jacket is just as bad, except it's "I'm a waiter")

      Pretty much only if it is a black vest with black pants and black tie and black or white shirt.

      • cballard 10 years ago

        Think of it like this, an order of formality:

        - Jacket - Tie - Vest

        Each is a step up in formality, and should not be done without the previous, unless you're Nick Wooster, and you're not.

        • tjr 10 years ago

          I've seen people wearing a tie with no jacket; they did not work at a cell phone store, nor did I think that they looked like they did. I've seen people wearing vests (with or without ties) without jackets; they were not waiters, nor did I think that they looked like they were.

          I'm not sure if these alleged rules you speak of are codified somewhere, but given the context of the conversation (people around me are wearing hoodies and pajamas while I'm wearing a suit), I find it hard to imagine any combination of jackets, ties, and vests being truly inappropriate...

          • dllthomas 10 years ago

            If you try something out, and think you look great, and find that others agree, then bin any given rule. But most people, most of the time, are most likely to look best following most rules.

            Personally, I don't like the look or feel of a tie with no jacket, or a suit with no tie.

    • rm_-rf_slash 10 years ago

      Exception: vest and tie with a stylish hat. Otherwise, yes, a suit is usually mandatory. I didn't expand on it for the sake of making my point. I'm glad some people on HN have fashion sense.

  • logfromblammo 10 years ago

    The nerd clique has oft been ridiculed for its manner of dress, without regard to whether those garments are the very same as those worn by others.

    This has, naturally, led to the group-wide conclusion that keeping up with fashion trends is a pointless practice.

    Unfortunately, I don't have a pair of those sunglasses from "They Live" that I can put on to read the secret messages on clothing, like "ADORE ME" or "I AM IMPORTANT" or "FEAR ME" or "SUBMIT". I have a feeling that they are there, whether I can see them or not.

    Whatever the message is on a suit, it makes the nerd caste uncomfortable. I don't know exactly why.

    I'm just glad that I don't have to think very hard about my clothing. My closet has a "work" section, and a "non-work" section, and I can just grab the first things I see from the appropriate section, put it on, and be done. Waaaaay back in the back of the closet is my sole instance of all-purpose formal attire. That's what I wear for weddings and funerals, without having to think about it.

    The author of the article mentioned just how much effort was spent researching and purchasing his two suits. But once it was done, he could, like me, dress on autopilot every workday for the entire rest of his life. How can I possibly fault him for that?

    • rm_-rf_slash 10 years ago

      Barack Obama says the only fashion choice he makes every day is red tie or blue tie. Every choice comes with decision fatigue, and he's got a lot to make.

      • logfromblammo 10 years ago

        I'm disappointed that the President of the United States--supposedly a pretty smart feller--doesn't just flip a coin for that. He could even keep four more colors in the closet if he would just roll a d6!~

        I suspect that he makes a lot more fashion decisions than that implicitly, by delegating them to an employee. That's not exactly the same as having perfect indifference to all the various clothing options in your wardrobe.

  • zyxley 10 years ago

    Being conscious about your clothes really helps if you don't like dealing with fashion, paradoxically enough, since it means you can make your choices ahead of time. Try different things until you find one brand you really like, and then direct order different variations in that brand in the sizes that you already know fit you well.

    To go a bit further, I have several completely identical pairs of wrinkle-free all-weather slacks in neutral colors that match with everything. They fit me well and look good on me - and now for most outfits I just don't have to think about what pants to wear.

    Similarly, I've got a pair of waterproofed leather Oxfords that are nice enough for formal wear, low-key enough for casual wear, and sturdy (and grippy) enough for everything up to light hiking, so for most things I just can just wear the same pair of (very comfortably broken in) shoes.

nickpsecurity 10 years ago

Nice write-up. Reminds me of the Steve Jobs portrayal on the excellent Pirates of Silicon Valley movie. Jobs and the other rebels mocked the "IBM types" in suits. Got nowhere in business world as "suits" dominated financing. Eventually, Jobs changes his appearance to look like a suit outwardly while inwardly being a rebel. Once successful, he reverts a bit to go back to rebellious appearance when inside of Apple while mocking IBM types and suits once again. While one suit with great poker skills, esp bluffing, straight up took his stuff and made a fortune off it working with other suits. That was Gates.

All in all, just goes to show that what a person could do was always more important than what they wore. Even worse, people often dress to deceive: pushing an image intended to influence observer for wearer's selfish benefit. Also called "dress for success." So, I have a bias where I watch out for that kind of thing. Interesting enough, Silicon Valley does the same thing with their dress styles aiming to fit in. Gets to the point that it's almost a survival strategy where people often wear expected stuff to avoid getting filtered out due to appearance.

Props to Greg for simply wearing what he liked and letting his actions speak louder than his words. He and Jonathan have nice suits, too. Reminds me I need to buy another one as I rarely wear a suit and occasionally like how it looks/feels. I'll be sure to get whatever style everyone else isn't wearing to satisfy the rebel in me. :)

tikhonj 10 years ago

To answer the question: maybe, somewhat? There's a pretty big difference between that and an actual dress code though, which is far worse. Wearing a suit at a tech company might draw a few weird glances or comments, but it won't get you fired outright. Wearing casual clothes at a bank will.

The fact that the culture isn't absolutely, consistently accepting is unfortunate, but it's much better than what came before.

I'm sure a bias exists, but it's subtle. It's the sort of thing that if you expect, you'll see more.

> They smile when the quirky and brilliant hacker wears pajamas and rollerblades to the office, but when they meet the coder in a suit, their polite expressions falter for a second.

Polite expressions faltering? That's the sort of thing you'll find if you're looking for it, whether it's there or not. A person wearing pajamas would have a larger effect in absolute terms; the difference is relative: a tech company would be more accepting of pajamas than you'd expect and less so of suits.

cballard 10 years ago

> As long as I can remember my father would work 12 hours a day, 6 days a week, wearing a suit to the office. I’ve always wanted to follow his example.

What!? This is not something to be admired!

btbuildem 10 years ago

I like to wear my suit to work a few times per year, just on random days. I've been approached by higher ups more than once with the question "Are you interviewing somewhere else?" First time I got a kick out of it, but after reflecting decided that it was a good way to send a subtle message now and then.

  • Kalium 10 years ago

    I wear a suit every Friday. People definitely notice. It helps that I sit directly along the path between the entrance and the main work area in the main SF office.

    (And several coworkers probably suspect who I am. Hi!)

    It's prompted a fair number of wisecracks, but people seemed to have warmed to the idea that implicit dress codes don't need to be strict.

maldusiecle 10 years ago

A photo caption from the article: "Silicon Valley vs Mad Men — who would you rather be?"

But Mad Men is a show largely about its characters' bad behavior--their casual bigotry, crass money-grubbing, etc. If you're wearing a suit because you want to be Don Draper, you're not just a poor interpreter of television; you're probably a pretty poor excuse for a person.

I don't have anything against suits, per se. I'd point out that there are a lot of points on the spectrum between full-casual and a suit, though. I tend to wear business casual; comfortable, flattering, not too expensive. But it feels pretty grotesque to complain that you're being discriminated against for choosing to wear expensive, tailored clothing, especially when there are people really suffering discrimination because of their gender or the color of their skin.

  • klipt 10 years ago

    Maybe the grim lesson is that a crass bigot in a suit gets better treatment than a decent person in casual.

shalmanese 10 years ago

This post reminds me of the 42Floors blog post from a while ago:

Another quick story before I really dive into this blog post. We had a gentleman over to interview for one of our account executive positions at 42Floors. He had strong experience leasing SF office space: great resume, great cover letter, did well in our initial phone screen.

When he walked in the door, we could hear the clacking of his shoes on our hardwood floor. He was dressed impeccably in a suit that probably cost more than my first car and was carrying one of those leathery-thingys that seemed to exist only for the purpose of being carried during interviews.

I stole a glance to a few of the people from my team who had looked up when he walked in. I could sense the disappointment.

We’re all happily wearing blue jeans and sneakers. It’s not that we’re so petty or strict about the dress code that we are going to disqualify him for not following an unwritten rule, but we know empirically that people who come in dressed in suits rarely work out well for our team.

He was failing the go-out-for-a-beer test and he didn’t even know it.

http://web.archive.org/web/20140618142018/http://blog.42floo...

reagle 10 years ago

It probably isn't read as a "Red Sneakers Effect" and so it doesn't serve you in the eyes of peers---even if idiosyncratic.

http://reagle.org/joseph/2015/merit/merit.html#geek-superior...

tomjen3 10 years ago

The company I work for is extremely casual, but there are couple who wear suits to work every day (though sans tie) and nobody much care. That said if wear a suit at a conference then my first guess is not that you are a programmer, unless you do something else to highlight that you code for a living.

vinceguidry 10 years ago

I've noticed it's less about the suit and more about the tie. If I wear a suit without a tie to work, I get some compliments, but when I wear a tie, with or without a suit, the CEO will start joking that I'm going to a job interview later on.

A suit is just clothes. A tie is a statement.

  • dllthomas 10 years ago

    I have yet to wear a suit to work, aside from my interview. I have twice worn a tie. No one noticed.

perlgeek 10 years ago

My personal experience is that tech folks tend to forget about clothing very quickly if you're actually competent.

If you go around throwing buzzwords everywhere, tech people make fun of you. If you also wear a suit while throwing around buzzwords, well, all the more fun.

yarrel 10 years ago

Hello privilege assertion.

  • logicallee 10 years ago

    No, privilege assertion is showing up to the office in pajamas.

  • scrumper 10 years ago

    Is that a kind of privilege escalation?

    • JorgeGT 10 years ago

      Yes, of the social engineering class. Really dangerous if you substitute the suit with a hard hat and a paperclip - access is granted to virtually all physical infrastructure.

      • scrumper 10 years ago

        Very good. Hi-vis vest is astonishingly effective too. See recent Hatton Garden (London) diamond heist.

      • teddyh 10 years ago

        (I think you mean a clipboard, not a paperclip.)

        • JorgeGT 10 years ago

          Yes, thanks! Although a paperclip is also a powerful tool when you need to open a computer without having a screwdriver available :P

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